Hollywood sibling rivalries often make headlines, Dakota Fanning is clear about her relationship with younger sister Elle: there’s no competition between them. The sisters, who have both been in the spotlight since childhood, recently opened up about their bond and how they’ve supported each other’s careers without feeling competitive. Their honesty provides a refreshing look at how family ties can thrive in the entertainment industry.
The Vanity Fair Interview
In a new cover story for Vanity Fair, Dakota and Elle Fanning discussed their relationship and careers. When asked about competition, Dakota was quick to respond. She said, “Zero. We obviously share a lot but we’re very different. So I don’t even see something that’s right for her as being right for me. I don’t feel competitive. But I know that people probably don’t believe that.” This direct quote highlights Dakota’s firm stance on the issue and her awareness that some might doubt their dynamic.
Elle added context to their relationship, noting that when they were younger, they intentionally carved out separate paths to ensure people saw them as individuals. She explained, “When we were younger, we wanted to make sure that people saw us differently, and we wanted to give each other space to carve our own path. But as adults, it’s been very fulfilling to merge.” This approach allowed them to develop their own identities while maintaining a close sisterly bond.
Growing Up in the Spotlight
Dakota and Elle Fanning have been in the public eye for most of their lives. Dakota started acting at a young age, gaining recognition for her role in I Am Sam at just six years old. Elle followed suit, playing the younger version of Dakota’s character in the same film. Despite their early start in Hollywood, both sisters have managed to avoid the pitfalls that often plague child stars.
Elle humorously addressed the assumption that they must be “messed up” due to their childhood fame. She joked, “We’re like, ‘We’re so messed up. You don’t even know the half.’” But she quickly turned serious, adding, “Even though we were young in this business, I don’t feel like I missed out on anything. People want us to feel like we missed out. They love that narrative.” This reflects their resistance to the stereotypical stories about child actors.
Dakota recalled the challenges of growing up during peak tabloid culture. She mentioned how she would check magazines to see if she was featured in the “worst dressed” sections. She also talked about being cautious with social media, saying, “OceanUp was brutal. Eventually I told friends of mine, just don’t put any photos on the internet. I have no photos from that time.” Her primary concern wasn’t her career but avoiding trouble with their mother, Joy Fanning.
Their Unique Dynamic
The sisters have always had distinct personalities. Dakota has often been described as more serious and bossy during their childhood, while Elle was more free-spirited. In the interview, they revisited a video from 2019 showing them getting ready for Halloween. In the clip, a young Dakota is seen shooing Elle away, saying, “Go get your wig back on!” Watching the video now, Dakota remarked, “I’m being so bossy! And Elle’s so sad and cute, just wanting to hang out.” She added, “You’re so tiny but I felt older inside.”
Elle responded with empathy, telling Dakota, “You’re judging your small self. You only wish you weren’t so mean.” This exchange shows their ability to reflect on their past with honesty and humor. Dakota acknowledged that her attitude has changed over time. She said, “I just want her to have everything that she wants. What’s mine is hers, and I feel the same thing back from her.” This mutual support system has been a cornerstone of their relationship.
Professional Collaboration
After years of working separately, Dakota and Elle are finally set to share the screen in the upcoming film The Nightingale. The movie, based on the novel by Kristin Hannah, tells the story of two sisters in France during World War II. The project marks their first time acting together in speaking roles, as they previously only played the same character at different ages in I Am Sam.
The sisters are also co-producing the film through their production company, Lewellen Pictures. Elle expressed excitement about this collaboration, saying, “As sisters, to share our artistry with each other while bringing such a powerful sister story to life is a dream come true.” This professional merger is a natural step for them as adults, allowing them to combine their talents and shared vision.
Support Beyond the Screen
Their bond extends beyond their professional lives. According to sources close to the sisters, they talk constantly, even when working in different parts of the world. “They have a rule that no matter what, they never go more than two days without checking in, but they usually don’t even go that long,” shared an insider. This commitment to staying connected highlights the depth of their relationship.
Dakota has often referred to Elle as her best friend, and Elle has echoed similar sentiments. In a past interview, Elle said, “She is my number-one person—I go to her for all the advice, for everything, and so I’m very lucky that I have a sister like that.” This mutual admiration and reliance on each other for support have been key to navigating the challenges of fame.
Public Appearances and Recognition
The sisters have made several joint public appearances, showcasing their strong bond. At the 2025 Golden Globes, they attended together, with Dakota nominated for her role in Netflix’s Ripley and Elle there to support the Bob Dylan biopic A Complete Unknown. Their coordinated yet distinct styles—Dakota in a red Dolce & Gabbana gown and Elle in a gold Balmain dress—symbolized their individuality and unity.
They also enjoyed a sisters’ day out at the U.S. Open men’s finals in September 2025, where they were spotted chatting animatedly in the front row. These moments highlight how they balance their personal and professional lives, always making time for each other despite their busy schedules.
With The Nightingale set to begin filming in 2026 and premiere in February 2027, fans can look forward to seeing the Fanning sisters bring their real-life bond to the big screen. The project is a testament to their growth as individuals and as a sister duo, proving that family support can coexist with professional success in Hollywood.
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Credits: Vanity Fair, Geo TV, Hollywood Mask
