Yulhee, former LABOUM member, recently opened up about her unexpected divorce from FT Island’s Choi Minhwan, sharing raw emotions about her personal journey post-separation. Her candid reflection aired on TV Chosun’s show, “Now, I’m Alone,” revealing how life has evolved for her two years after the couple parted ways.

Yulhee’s Reflections on Early Family Life

During the emotional segment, Yulhee spoke about her early family life, recalling how she became a mother at the young age of 22. She shared,

“Our beautiful Jaeyul was born when I was 22. We were just so happy then. I found out I was pregnant with twins just a month or two after Jaeyul’s first birthday. I thought, ‘Our family is growing!’ It was such a joy.“

She reflected on the happiness that surrounded her expanding family, emphasizing that both she and Minhwan had always envisioned having a large family.

“We both wanted a large family, so we were very happy. Watching the kids, I couldn’t stop smiling. I wondered, what could ever make me smile so wide again if it weren’t for them?“

The Suddenness of the Divorce

In a particularly emotional moment, Yulhee discussed how unexpected the divorce was from her perspective.

“I didn’t feel it. That’s why it felt so sudden,” she shared tearfully, explaining how the divorce took her by surprise.
She also expressed the pain caused by online criticisms, particularly those that accused her of neglecting her children:
“‘You abandoned your kids to enjoy your life,’ people would say. It made me cry.“

Yulhee and Minhwan married in 2018 and shared three children together: one son and twin daughters. The news of their separation came in December 2022, after five years of marriage, with Minhwan retaining custody of their children.

Choi Minhwan Initiated the Divorce

In a more recent episode of “Now, I’m Alone,” aired on October 22, Yulhee revealed that it was Choi Minhwan who first brought up the topic of divorce. Reflecting on this difficult time, she said:

“I didn’t sense a crisis. That’s why I have many happy memories. Since I didn’t feel a crisis, when I finally learned the truth, it was like my personal hell. The divorce was something I suddenly faced unexpectedly.“

At first, Yulhee was determined to overcome the challenges in her marriage, believing that their shared love and commitment to their children could get them through.

“When the idea of divorce first seriously entered my life, at first, I thought, ‘Let’s try to overcome this.’ I believed I could overcome the pain and challenges because we loved each other and we have kids together. But by the time I realized that I couldn’t overcome it, the gap between us had already grown too deep. We both felt that this decision was the right one for us.“

While Yulhee wasn’t the one who initiated the divorce, she acknowledged that by the time they separated, it had become the best solution for both of them.

Concerns for Her Children

One of Yulhee’s primary concerns throughout the divorce process was the emotional impact on her children. She admitted that it wasn’t just about whether or not she could raise them but about the potential emotional scars they might carry.

“I was really worried about how this would affect them. It wasn’t a matter of whether or not I could raise them, but rather the emotional wounds they might suffer. Divorce is a choice you make when there’s no other option.“

Public Reactions to Yulhee’s Revelations

Yulhee’s revelations have stirred significant conversation among Korean netizens, who shared a variety of perspectives about the divorce. Some sympathized with her situation, recognizing the difficulty of discussing such personal matters publicly, especially with children involved.
Here are some of the comments:

“She provided the reasons for the divorce; that’s why he brought it up. It isn’t easy to bring up divorce when you have three kids.“
“Her mother-in-law was living upstairs and her sister-in-law was living downstairs…“
“So her husband mentioned divorce first? Married men would know… it’s nearly impossible to talk about divorce first like that.“

Other comments speculated about the reasons behind the separation, with some expressing support for both parents’ decision to prioritize their children’s well-being.

What’s Next for Yulhee

As Yulhee continues to reflect on her post-divorce life, her appearances on “Now, I’m Alone” offer a window into the emotional and practical challenges of adjusting to life as a single mother. Viewers will likely continue to follow her journey as she navigates this new chapter.

“Now, I’m Alone” airs every Tuesday at 10 PM, offering insights into the lives of individuals rebuilding after separation or divorce.

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