Janae and Phillip, a couple featured on OWN’s Family or Fiancé Season 4, faced intense scrutiny over their relationship dynamics. Their story, filled with passion and conflict, left viewers wondering if they stayed together after the show. Here’s a detailed look at their journey and final decision.
Their Relationship Began With Passion and Parties
Janae and Phillip’s love story started with excitement, travel, and non-stop parties. Their connection was instant, and they enjoyed a whirlwind romance. However, their lifestyle differences became a major issue when Phillip decided to stay sober. His new commitment to sobriety clashed with Janae’s party-loving habits, creating tension between them .
“When Janae and Phillip met, they began a passionate love affair with loads of travel, excitement and non-stop parties. But now that Phillip is newly sober, their lifestyle differences and communication styles wave a red flag for concerned family members.”
Family Concerns and Communication Struggles
Phillip’s family worried about his future, especially since Janae’s lifestyle didn’t align with his sobriety. The couple also struggled with communication. Janae admitted she often shut down during arguments to avoid conflict, while Phillip felt emotionally disconnected from her .
“I just shut down, I do, because I’d rather avoid arguing,” Janae admitted during a session with relationship expert Tracy McMillan.
Their issues escalated when Janae criticized Phillip for commenting on her relationship with her daughter, accusing him of playing the “victim” due to his strained relationship with his own son .
Therapy and a Postponed Wedding
With the help of therapists, Janae and Phillip worked on their problems. Phillip was advised to seek anger management, while Janae was encouraged to support his sobriety and improve communication. Though they initially planned to marry, they decided to postpone the wedding and focus on fixing their relationship first .
“I’m definitely willing to make all necessary changes for us ’cause if we don’t make those changes, it’s just going to be a disaster,” Janae said.
The Final Decision: Staying Together
Despite their challenges, Janae and Phillip chose to stay together by the end of the show. They committed to working on their issues rather than rushing into marriage. Their story ended on a hopeful note, with both willing to make compromises for their relationship .
Where Are They Now?
As of July 2025, there are no official updates on whether Janae and Phillip are still together. The “Where Are They Now?” episode for Family or Fiancé Season 1 aired in April 2025, but it did not include their story. Fans will have to wait for future updates to know if they eventually married or parted ways .
Why Their Story Resonated With Viewers
Janae and Phillip’s relationship highlighted real struggles many couples face—sobriety, communication, and family pressure. Their willingness to work through problems instead of giving up made their journey relatable. The show emphasized that love isn’t always easy, but effort and compromise can keep a relationship strong .
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Credits: Sources include OWN, and IMDb.
