Elizabeth “Libby” Potthast Castravet is sharing her perspective on the intense conflict with her husband, Andrei Castravet, during the new season of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?. The drama centers on Andrei’s push for the family to move from their home in Tampa, Florida, to his native country of Moldova, a plan that includes him giving Elizabeth a serious ultimatum about their future.
The couple, who have been together for seven years and share two children, appeared to agree on the move initially. Andrei argued that life in Moldova is more affordable and would allow their kids to be closer to his family, especially since his relationship with most of Elizabeth’s relatives is strained. However, Elizabeth began having serious doubts, wanting to thoroughly research their potential life there—looking at homes and schools—before making a final decision. Andrei, growing impatient, took a much harder line.
Andrei’s Ultimatum: Move to Moldova or We Separate
The central conflict of their current storyline is a high-pressure ultimatum from Andrei. He told another cast member, Alexei Brovarnik, that if Elizabeth refused to agree to the move, he would present her with a stark choice: they move to Moldova together, or they separate. This demand put Elizabeth in an extremely difficult position, forcing her to consider uprooting her entire life or risking the end of her marriage.
Andrei claimed that he would tell Elizabeth that they would either move to Moldova together or separate. This is a villainous move on Andrei’s part, as it didn’t take Elizabeth’s feelings into account at all.
This approach has led many viewers and commentators to label Andrei as a “villain” this season, criticizing him for making a major family decision unilaterally.
Elizabeth’s Reaction to the Pressure and a Secret Investment
Elizabeth’s hesitation was compounded when she discovered Andrei had not been fully honest with her about their finances. Years ago, Andrei invested $75,000 in a property in Moldova with plans to renovate and sell it for a profit. Due to complications from the Russia-Ukraine war, the project stalled, and the company he invested with disappeared with the money.
Instead of telling Elizabeth about this significant financial loss, Andrei kept it a secret. He only revealed the truth when he took her to see the dilapidated property during their trip. Elizabeth was furious to learn about this not only from Andrei but also to find out he had told other cast members like Jovi Dufren and Alexei Brovarnik before telling her. Feeling betrayed and angry, Elizabeth decided to cut the trip short and return to the United States early.
Fan Debate: Who Is in the Wrong?
The ongoing drama has sparked heated debates among fans on social media. Many side with Elizabeth, pointing out that Andrei’s ultimatum is unfair and that his secretive behavior about the bad investment is a major breach of trust. Fans also note that while Andrei often speaks about traditional values where the man is the breadwinner, Elizabeth is currently the only one in the family with a steady job.
Others, however, feel Elizabeth shares some blame. Some viewers argue that she frequently looks down on Moldovan culture and lifestyles, making unfavorable comparisons to life in America. During the trip, she expressed concern about losing everyday conveniences like a dishwasher and washing machine. Critics suggest that marrying a man from another culture requires more adaptability and respect for his background.
The show has highlighted this cultural tension, noting that even Andrei’s Moldovan friends were uncomfortable with his aggressive talk about “putting his wife in her place,” though they also seemed to find Elizabeth too outspoken. The debate continues, with many concluding that both partners have contributed to the conflict in different ways.
Elizabeth Speaks Out on Recent Tense Scenes
Beyond the ultimatum and the secret investment, Elizabeth has publicly reacted to other tense moments from the season. In a recent Instagram Live session, she addressed a scene where Andrei grabbed her phone during a heated argument.
Elizabeth said watching the scene back was “hard to watch” and that she was livid it happened. She emphasized that she was especially upset because the incident occurred while she was pregnant. This personal reaction gives fans a direct look at her feelings about the conflicts playing out on screen.
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Other Couples Facing Crisis in Season 9
Elizabeth and Andrei are not the only couple navigating serious trouble in Season 9 of Happily Ever After?. The season premiere showed that Kara Bass and Guillermo Castillo are struggling, with the episode suggesting they are “no longer in love”. Meanwhile, Gino Palazzolo and Jasmine Pineda are dealing with the fallout of an open marriage that has left them separated and exploring other relationships.
The new season, which features eight couples in total, aims to show the “relatable and often chaotic reality of married life,” including miscommunication, family conflict, and new beginnings. For the first time, the couples’ storylines are also intertwining, as they weigh in on each other’s problems.
90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? airs on TLC on Sundays at 8:00 p.m. ET and is available to stream on Discovery+.
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