Tom Hiddleston and Zawe Ashton have kept their relationship private but their love story is one of the most talked-about in Hollywood. The couple met while working together and have since built a family. Here’s everything you need to know about their journey, from their first meeting to their recent pregnancy news.
How They Met
Tom Hiddleston and Zawe Ashton first crossed paths in 2018 at a charity gala celebrating playwright Harold Pinter. They later starred together in the 2019 revival of Pinter’s play Betrayal in London’s West End. In the play, they played a married couple, Robert and Emma, while Charlie Cox played the third lead. Their chemistry on stage soon turned into a real-life romance.
Behind the scenes, their bond grew stronger. A source close to the production shared, “They were very private publicly, but behind the scenes you could just see a lovely chemistry. There were twinkles in both of their eyes, and the entire company, including Charlie Cox, were all very close.” The play later moved to Broadway, giving them more time together.
Dating Rumors and First Public Appearances
In August 2019, they sparked dating rumors when they were spotted together at the U.S. Open. However, they kept their relationship low-key for years. Their first official public appearance as a couple was at the 2021 Tony Awards, where Hiddleston was nominated for Best Actor for Betrayal.
The couple continued to stay private but occasionally stepped out together. In September 2021, they were photographed sharing a kiss during a vacation in Ibiza, Spain. Their red carpet debut as a couple at the BAFTAs in March 2022 was a big moment for fans.
Engagement and First Pregnancy
At the 2022 BAFTAs, eagle-eyed fans noticed a diamond ring on Ashton’s finger. Shortly after, their engagement was confirmed. Hiddleston later spoke about it in an interview with the Los Angeles Times, saying simply, “I’m very happy.”
In June 2022, Ashton revealed her pregnancy during a red carpet appearance for her film Mr. Malcolm’s List. She wore a flowing gown that showed her baby bump. Later that year, in October, they welcomed their first child. A source shared, “Tom and Zawe are loving being new parents and are filled with joy.”
Life as Parents and Second Pregnancy
The couple has kept their child’s name and gender private. However, they have been seen enjoying family outings and rare public appearances. In July 2023, they attended the Wimbledon men’s final alongside Andrew Garfield and Ariana Grande.
Hiddleston has spoken about how parenthood changed him. He said, “Of course, it has to. I think I probably knew it would, but I could never have imagined how deeply it would until it happened. And yeah, it’s before and after.”
Now, they are expecting their second child. Ashton confirmed the news in an exclusive interview with Vogue on June 7, 2025. She walked the red carpet at the SXSW London festival in a sky-blue gown designed by Emilia Wickstead, showing her baby bump. She said, “I feel really lucky to be working with someone that I know and who’s been such a champion of me at this sensitive red-carpet dressing moment.”
Supporting Each Other’s Careers
Both actors have successful careers, with Hiddleston famously playing Loki in the Marvel Cinematic Universe (MCU). Ashton joined the MCU in 2023’s The Marvels, where she played the villain Dar-Benn. Hiddleston proudly supported her, saying, “My other half is in The Marvels and I’m very proud of her.”
Ashton also shared how Hiddleston helped her prepare for her MCU role. She said, “One of the main takeaways from our conversations was, ‘What you put into Marvel, you get back.’ He said, ‘If you go into this with an open heart and a great work ethic, you’ll have an amazing experience on those sets.’ He really empowered me in that way.”
Their Private Life in London
The couple lives in a £4.8 million converted home in Belsize Park, London. They prefer to keep their family life away from the spotlight. Despite their fame, they are often described as down-to-earth and private.
Hiddleston has always valued keeping his personal life separate from his work. He once said, “Everyone is entitled to a private life. I love what I do and I dedicate myself with absolute commitment to making great art and great entertainment, and in my mind I don’t conflict the two.”
Recent Public Appearances
In early 2024, they attended the Emmy Awards together, where Ashton wore a bright yellow gown. Hiddleston also gave her a sweet shout-out at the People’s Choice Awards, saying, “Zawe, none of this makes sense without you. Thank you for your love and support every step of the way.”
Their latest appearance was at the Life of Chuck premiere in June 2025, where Ashton’s flowing dress hinted at her pregnancy before the official announcement.
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Credits: Sources include People, Town & Country, Cosmopolitan, US Weekly, and Vogue.