Jennifer Lopez has a new message for anyone going through a breakup: throw a party. The singer and actress shared her honest thoughts on relationships ending during a recent interview, and her viewpoint is getting people talking.
The 56-year-old star appeared on the June 30 episode of the online talk show Subway Takes with host Kareem Rahma. During the conversation, Lopez explained why she believes people should change how they think about breakups.
“Breakups are not a failure. I honestly feel like it’s a launchpad into your next best self,” Lopez said. She then shared her main point: “We should have a party when we break up.”
Lopez explained that ending a relationship is often a brave choice. She said people should congratulate others who end things because it means they made a decision. She also said it was probably the best thing for everyone involved.
The performer, who has been married four times, also shared a surprising view about who comes out on top after a split. She believes the person who gets their heart broken is actually the real winner.
“If you go around your life and you’re breaking hearts, let’s say, you’re a loser,” Lopez explained. She admitted she has been on both sides of breakups. But she stressed that people who always do the breaking up never learn anything about themselves.
Lopez said her own biggest moments of growth have come from heartbreak. This includes not just romantic relationships but also work-related disappointments.
“I just feel like the biggest growth spurts I’ve had emotionally, mentally, psychologically have always come from a heartbreak,” she shared.
She described how breakups force people to ask themselves hard questions. Lopez said people start thinking about what went wrong and why they keep repeating the same patterns. She believes this process helps people change themselves completely.
A New View on Heartbreak after Ben Affleck Divorce
Lopez’s comments come about two years after her split from actor Ben Affleck. The couple first got engaged in November 2002 but called off their wedding days before the big day. They broke up officially in January 2004.
They reconnected twenty years later and got married in 2022. Lopez filed for divorce in August 2024. The marriage lasted about two years.
Since the divorce was finalized, Lopez has spoken openly about her new chapter. She said she is in her “happy era” and feels free for the first time in a long time.
Lopez’s relationship history includes marriages to Ojani Noa from 1997 to 1998, Cris Judd in 2001, and Marc Anthony from 2004 to 2014. She shares twins Max and Emme with Anthony.
She also had a relationship with former baseball player Alex Rodriguez from 2017 to 2021.
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Why People Should Celebrate Their Breakups
Lopez believes every breakup should come with a celebration. She said the person going through the split should get congratulations instead of sympathy.
“One, you made a decision. Two, it was probably the best thing for everybody,” Lopez stated on the show.
The star shared that she has learned valuable lessons from every relationship that ended. She told Rahma that heartbreak is the only time people really dig deep and examine their lives.
Lopez also shut down recent dating rumors. Reports linked her to her Office Romance co-star Brett Goldstein. She appeared on the Today show and said plainly, “Not dating.”
The singer-actress also revealed what she looks for in a partner. She said she does not discriminate when it comes to looks. Lopez likes different types of guys, from skinny to having some weight around the middle. She also likes both beards and clean-shaven looks. For her, what matters most is the person inside.
Lopez has come a long way since her split with Affleck. In October 2025, she stood next to Affleck on a red carpet while promoting their movie musical Kiss of the Spider Woman.
She also talked about how she handles relationships after they end. Lopez told Howard Stern that once she is done with someone, she is completely done.
Her message about celebrating breakups is getting attention online. Fans are sharing their thoughts on whether they would throw a party after a split. The conversation continues as Lopez enjoys her current chapter.
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