The connection between Gergana Lazarova and Parminder “Parmi” Singh became one of the central stories of Love Is Blind: Italy. Their journey began in the show’s famous pods, where singles talk without seeing each other. For Gergana and Parmi, this phase was about building trust and discovering a deep emotional bond despite the challenges they knew lay ahead.
From their first meeting in the pods, Gergana and Parmi decided to focus on general but meaningful topics. They talked about their families and careers. Gergana, who is 30 and originally from Bulgaria, spoke openly about her background and the immense importance of her parents in her life. Parmi, 34, chose to keep some personal details private at first. He did not immediately share specifics about his ethnicity or appearance, wanting the connection to be about more than just those facts.
Their conversations found an easy, natural rhythm. They discovered a funny and sweet coincidence: they had both shared the same childhood dream of becoming flight attendants. This shared, unfulfilled ambition created an instant point of connection and laughter, showing them they could relate to each other’s past hopes.
However, Gergana was also exploring a connection with another participant, Giovanni Calvario. When Giovanni ended their talks to pursue a relationship with another woman, Gergana was hurt. It was during this time that she turned more fully to Parmi, who offered calm and supportive conversations without pressuring her. This steady presence became a foundation for their growing bond.
A significant moment came when the topic of tattoos came up. Parmi explained he had several, including one of an Indian God on his chest. This led him to open up about his Indian heritage. Gergana’s response was honest and filled with concern. She explained that his ethnicity might be a serious issue for her parents, and their opinion “means everything” to her. She shared that her immigrant parents were ill and that she carried significant responsibilities and pressures in caring for them.
“I’ll stand and fight with you, if you stand and fight with me,” Parmi told her in response.
This promise deeply moved Gergana. It showed his willingness to face difficult family dynamics together, but it also scared her. She worried about potentially subjecting him to a difficult situation with her family. Despite these fears, the strength of their emotional connection in the pods kept pulling her forward.
Parmi reassured her during their talks. He sensed her tension and told her they didn’t have to get married right away and that she could relax. In a private confession, he said he would work hard not only to win her over but also to win over her parents. Gergana noted that he made her feel safe, understood, and loved.
As their pod dates continued, they discussed how they handle conflict. Gergana said she prefers to avoid it and tries to diffuse tense situations. Parmi shared that he sometimes struggles to see other perspectives and usually needs some space when there is a disagreement. These honest exchanges about their personalities helped them understand each other better.
Gergana told Parmi she was looking for a partner with whom she could share her pain. She asked if he would be that person for her. His response reinforced his earlier pledge of solidarity. For Gergana, who had never before said “I love you” to a romantic partner, these conversations were breaking down her defenses.
Parmi eventually made his choice clear. He told Gergana he loved being with her.
“I know that there are a ton of reasons why this will be difficult. But I want you. You really make me feel good,” he confessed to her, becoming emotional.
Gergana also had tears in her eyes. He told her he wanted to do the experiment only with her. He then read her a letter, got down on one knee, and proposed. Gergana said yes, choosing to follow her heart despite the uncertainties.
When Gergana and Parmi finally met face-to-face for the first time, their connection seemed strong. Reports describe an “electric” energy as they embraced and kissed. Their romantic getaway to Morocco allowed their emotional bond to flourish in person. Gergana felt heard and safe, and Parmi adjusted to connecting her voice with her appearance.
The real-world challenges became clear once they returned to Italy. A major issue was distance. Gergana had built her life and career near her parents in Milan, while Parmi’s life, family, and his restaurant business, Raja Indian Lounge Restaurant, were centered in the Tuscany region, near Florence. This geographic separation was a significant hurdle from the start, as Parmi could not easily relocate his business.
Family concerns also resurfaced. Before the wedding, Gergana’s father expressed skepticism about the experiment and worries that cultural differences might be too significant. Parmi’s father also believed it was too soon to marry someone he had known for such a short time.
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At the altar, Gergana made what she called one of the “most painful” decisions of her life. Though she stated she was “madly in love” with Parmi, she said no to marriage. She explained they were “not really ready” and cited both sets of parents’ concerns about them marrying too quickly. She was afraid of disappointing her parents, who were too important to her.
Despite the rejection, Gergana told Parmi she would “be outside,” indicating she still had feelings and hoped for a future. The couple did reconnect that same night and tried to make a relationship work after the show. However, the distance and their differing needs created ongoing problems. Gergana felt Parmi did not prioritize her enough, while Parmi felt they argued too much to enjoy time together.
During the Love Is Blind: Italy reunion special that aired on December 22, 2025, they revealed the current status of their relationship. Gergana still expressed strong affection, calling Parmi her “home”. Parmi, however, stated he no longer had romantic feelings for her, a confession that brought Gergana to tears. He also shared that if he had been asked first at the altar, he would have said no as well.
Following the emotional finale, Parmi asked the public for empathy. In a statement, he described their journey as “real, deep and respectful” and asked viewers to remember that real people were behind the televised moment. Gergana and Parmi now lead separate lives in different Italian cities. Gergana continues her career as a store manager in Milan, while Parmi runs his restaurant in Prato.
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