The official trailer for ‘Big Girls Don’t Cry’ has arrived, giving audiences a first look at director Paloma Schneideman’s feature debut. The film follows 14-year-old Sid Bookman through one chaotic summer in rural New Zealand as she grapples with her sexuality, identity, and the painful process of growing up.
The movie already premiered at the Sundance Film Festival in the World Cinema Dramatic Competition. It has since screened at SXSW, BFI Flare in London, and TIFF Next Wave. ‘Big Girls Don’t Cry’ also serves as the opening night film for the Whānau Marama New Zealand International Film Festival. The film will hit US cinemas on October 2, 2026.
Trailer Shows the Messy Reality of Teenage Years
The newly released trailer captures the raw and uncomfortable experience of being 14 years old. It shows Sid moving between different friend groups, trying on different versions of herself, and desperately wanting to be accepted.
One scene in the trailer shows Sid piercing her own belly button to impress older girls. Another shows her trying marijuana for the first time with an American exchange student. The trailer also includes glimpses of Sid’s strained relationship with her father and her growing attraction to other girls.
The visuals place viewers firmly in the year 2006. The trailer features Von Dutch trucker hats, MSN Messenger chats, and the distinctive sounds of dial-up internet. These period details ground the story in a specific time when the internet was new but social media had not yet taken over.
Sid Bookman’s Summer of Self-Discovery
The story centres on Sid Bookman (Ani Palmer), a 14-year-old girl who wants nothing more than to be cool. She lives in a remote coastal area of New Zealand’s North Island with her distracted father Leo (Noah Taylor), a frustrated painter who makes a living doing lawn maintenance.
As summer break begins, Sid embarks on a mission to climb the teenage social ladder. She brings alcohol from her father’s stash to gain favour with older girls Lana (Beatrix Wolfe) and Stevie (Sophia Kirkwood-Smith). She leaves behind her level-headed best friend Tia (Ngātaitangirua Hita) in the process.
Sid tells lies about her sexual experience to seem more knowledgeable than she really is. She also develops a crush on Lana, though she does not yet have the words to understand her attraction to girls.
The arrival of Freya (Rain Spencer), an American exchange student, becomes a turning point. Freya already sees Sid as cool and helps her begin to understand herself better.
A Film Rooted in Personal Experience
Schneideman, who also works as a musician under the name PollyHill, based the film on her own teenage experiences growing up in Matakana, New Zealand.
“I made Big Girls Don’t Cry for my 14-year-old self. Not for comfort, but for catharsis. For those who still wear the scars of coming-of-age — where shame lives, and desire and danger blur.”
She has described feeling pressure during her early teens as her friends started dating and becoming sexualised. The film explores that confusing space between childhood and adolescence when everything feels uncertain.
Schneideman was hand-picked by two-time Oscar-winning director Dame Jane Campion to participate in the A Wave in the Ocean programme, an intensive filmmaking course for emerging New Zealand filmmakers. ‘Big Girls Don’t Cry’ is the first feature film to come from an alumni of the programme.
Cast and Performances
The film marks the screen debut of Ani Palmer as Sid. Critics have praised her performance, with RogerEbert.com describing it as a “wonderfully layered and subtle debut”.
Rain Spencer, known for her role in ‘The Summer I Turned Pretty’ , plays Freya. Noah Taylor, whose credits include ‘Game of Thrones’ and ‘Peaky Blinders’ , plays Sid’s father Leo.
The supporting cast includes Beatrix Rain Wolfe, Sophia Kirkwood-Smith, Tara Canton, Ngātaitangirua Hita, and Ian Blackburn.
The film runs 1 hour and 40 minutes. It was produced by Vicky Pope and Thomas Coppell, with Jane Campion and Philippa Campbell serving as executive producers.
Festival Run and Critical Reception
‘Big Girls Don’t Cry’ has built strong momentum through its festival run. The film premiered at Sundance in January 2026. It then screened at SXSW in March, where it was named a Festival Favorite. The film also played at BFI Flare in London and TIFF Next Wave in Toronto.
The Hollywood Reporter called the film “rich in sensory detail and sharply observed” and said it “pulses with a powerful sense of place and terrifically charged scenes of chaotic intimacy”.
Variety described it as “a gentle, rigorous queer coming-of-age story”. Collider said the film fits somewhere between painful and heart-breaking, calling it the coming-of-age film that millennials deserve.
Out.com praised newcomer Ani Palmer as someone who “shines as a 14-year-old girl trying to figure out who she wants to be”.
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Release Date and Where to Watch
‘Big Girls Don’t Cry’ will receive a limited theatrical release in the United States on October 2, 2026. The film will then expand to more cinemas following the initial release.
The movie will also screen at the Whānau Marama New Zealand International Film Festival on July 29, 2026 in Auckland. It will receive a nationwide release in New Zealand cinemas on October 8, 2026.
International distribution details beyond the US and New Zealand have not yet been announced. The film is rated NR (Not Rated) in the US and includes content such as sexual content, drug use, and coarse language.
For audiences who enjoy honest portrayals of teenage life, ‘Big Girls Don’t Cry’ offers a look at the messiness of growing up queer in a time before widespread acceptance and representation.
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