aespa‘s Karina has reached out to her fans with a sincere apology following the confirmation of her relationship with South Korean actor Lee Jae Wook. The news of their romance took fans by surprise, prompting Karina to express her regret and reassure her(aespa’s) devoted fanbase, known as MYs.
Karina’s relationship confirmation initially led to a mix of reactions, with some fans expressing support and joy over the news, while others expressed disappointment and betrayal. The situation escalated when truck protests were organized in front of SM Entertainment’s headquarters, featuring banners with messages urging Karina to apologize for her relationship, with dire warnings of declining album sales and empty concert seats.
The intense reaction from a segment of the fanbase points to the deeply ingrained expectations placed on idols within the K-Pop industry, where personal life decisions can dramatically impact an idol’s career.
In response to the backlash, Karina issued a lengthy handwritten letter of apology via her Instagram. In her letter, she expressed remorse for the surprise and disappointment her news caused among MYs (aespa’s fans).
Taking to Instagram on March 5th, Karina shared a handwritten letter addressing her fans directly. She acknowledged the unexpected nature of the news and apologized for any disappointment it may have caused. Recognizing the unwavering support she has received from MYs throughout her career, Karina empathized with their potential feelings of upset and expressed her remorse for any discomfort she might have caused.
While the letter was brief, Karina’s words conveyed a deep sense of understanding and respect for her fans. She reassured them of her genuine feelings, emphasizing that each and every ‘MY’ holds a special place in her heart. Even though she acknowledged the limitations of a short letter in fully expressing her emotions, Karina expressed her sincere gratitude to her fans for their continued support.
Looking towards the future, Karina pledged to work hard and showcase a more mature side of herself. She vowed to dedicate even greater effort to her activities, ensuring that her actions align with the values she holds dear. Finally, Karina concluded the letter with a message of well-being, urging her fans to take care of themselves and expressing her hope to meet them again in good spirits.
Karina of aespa shares a handwritten apology letter for “fans” pic.twitter.com/LUEWiMFeH2
— Viral Takes (@viraltakes) March 5, 2024
While the dating confirmation has garnered mixed reactions from fans, Karina’s heartfelt apology demonstrates her commitment to transparency and her appreciation for the unwavering support she receives from her fanbase.
International K-Pop Fans React Strongly
Karina’s apology — intended to heal fans and promise a more mature and diligent future — has, however, been met with criticism from the international community.
karina apologizing makes me so mad yall really hate your idols and don’t want them to be happy and experience life. selfish fucks
— ˖𖦹⭒°。⋆ (@faenings) March 5, 2024
International fans took to social media to express their bafflement and disappointment at the necessity of such an apology for a personal life decision. Comments from international fans emphasized the discrepancy in expectations — with many arguing that Karina has the right to personal life and relationships without facing backlash or needing to apologize.
wish karina had a better company, seniors and just overall people around to guide her through this…. there's no way they let her post an apology. we need to de-normalize kpop idols apologizing to fans for dating or marrying their significant others.
— ْ (@itgirlmeal) March 5, 2024
she shouldn’t be apologizing 🙁
— juls (@julsoml) March 5, 2024
WE LOVE YOU KARINA pic.twitter.com/PRJOeLcVAs
karina apologizing for LIKING someone has to be one of the craziest things in the world…. everyone who talked ill about her will die in their sleep tonight
— ً (@KRNFILE) March 5, 2024
karina has spent a lot of time with us in bubble writing us heartwarming messages, worrying about us, asking about our day and more. And now she has to write a fucking apology because of the fans that can’t get reality out of fiction. she doesn’t deserve this type of treatment
— pooh ecoerience shushu s. kennedy 🇵🇸 (@minatotakis) March 5, 2024
They criticized the culture surrounding K-Pop, which they feel puts undue pressure on idols and prioritizes the feelings of the Korean fanbase over the mental health and personal freedom of the artists themselves.
kpop is so so shit u guys.. you got literal racists, abusers, sexual predators get away with bullshit like it's nothing but got karina posting a HAND written apology over a situationship she never made public i'll destroy this planet
— ْ (@itgirlmeal) March 5, 2024
sexual abusers and criminals are walking freely, getting documentaries and releasing music but Karina has to apologize for a one month situationship,kpop is fucked up https://t.co/gPfrUbFh8e
— ☠️☠️ (@Galaxy_0411) March 5, 2024
While it remains to be seen how this reaction will change the way fans react to K-Pop idols’ dating news in the future, the debate between Korean and international aespa fans continues.
aespa’s Karina and actor Lee Jae Wook confirm dating
The news of Karina and Lee Jae Wook’s relationship first surfaced in February 2024. Both their respective agencies confirmed that the two were in the early stages of getting to know each other, requesting respect for their privacy as they navigate this new chapter in their lives.