In a recent episode of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way, couple Anthony and Manon Berryman found themselves at odds over a family and religious matter. While enjoying a day at the park with their son, Benjamin, the couple discussed Manon’s plans for his baptism, a tradition important to her French Catholic roots. Anthony, who is not religious, openly expressed his discomfort with the ceremony, creating a moment of tension as the family navigates their new life in France.
A Clash of Beliefs
The core of the disagreement centered on a fundamental difference in personal beliefs. During their conversation, Anthony did not hold back his feelings about the planned baptism. He told Manon directly, “To be honest, for me, it’s a little weird. I am not religious. I don’t agree with that. It’s uncomfortable for me.” This confession highlighted the ongoing adjustment for the couple, who recently moved from Los Angeles to Paris to live with Manon’s parents.
Anthony also explained the reasons behind his lack of religious affiliation. Despite his personal feelings, he showed a willingness to support his wife, stating that he was prepared to go along with the baptism as long as it was a one-time cultural event and not the start of ongoing religious practice.
Manon’s Family Tradition
For Manon, the baptism was about more than religion; it was a connection to her family and heritage. In her own private confession, she revealed that she had already planned the entire event for the upcoming weekend and had invited her whole family. She was pleasantly surprised when everyone, including relatives who often had conflicts with one another, agreed to attend.
Manon saw the baptism as a precious opportunity for family unity. She shared, “We only see each other during like funerals, which is very sad. No one is doing any initiative to actually meet up and have a good time.” She viewed the ceremony as a chance for her family to “bury the hatchet” and create a happy memory together.
When Anthony voiced his unease, Manon was quick to defend her position. She reminded him that many decisions in their relationship had been made his way, centered on his country and his family. She stated, “Because it was your country, your family. It’s about my roots. We’re French. We’re Christian Catholic. The entire family is. I am. This is just one thing that I want to do.” Anthony ultimately conceded, telling her he was doing it for her.
Underlying Relationship Strains
This disagreement over religion is not the first sign of trouble for the couple. Their decision to move to France was itself a point of contention. Reports indicate that Manon was hesitant to leave her successful career as a plus-size model in Los Angeles, worrying that she would not find the same professional opportunities in France. She had previously left her home country and sworn she would never return, making the move emotionally difficult.
Some close to the couple have expressed concern that the relocation was a “band-aid” for deeper issues in their marriage. A private conversation was revealed in which Manon confessed that being married to Anthony sometimes made her feel like she was “dying inside.” These underlying tensions suggest that the conflict over their son’s baptism is part of a larger struggle to reconcile their different backgrounds and expectations for their life together.
Despite the stress of the family gathering, the couple was seen sharing a light-hearted and racy moment during the baptism celebration. At the party, Manon made a playful comment to Anthony, feeling free to do so because her family did not understand English.
Navigating a New Life in France
The baptism controversy comes as Anthony and Manon continue to settle into their new life in France. The couple, who are already married, made the move from the United States, with Anthony facing the immediate challenge of not being able to work in his new country. This has required Manon to remain the primary breadwinner, a role she was familiar with in Los Angeles but which adds another layer of complexity to their partnership as they adjust to a different culture.
The episode featuring the baptism aired on October 27, 2025, as part of the show’s seventh season.
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